First off this post is to do with me fighting for a little girl that I have seen once in 7yrs. So you know whats to follow and pls feel free to leave cause it's going to get long as I look for help.
Ok here's the background
relationship lasted 4yrs... it ended with the birth of my kid.
The last 3 months of the womans pregnancy I was not around... this is what led to the end of the relationship. I was however in banff trying to work. (we were both from MCF and sent to welfare when we hit 19.) When campbell took power we were cut off and I left town to get a stable job. I never did get that or decent money so I returned home after 3 months.
The woman had moved on... completely. Turned my parents against me, had her meth addicted friend and brother living in a tent in my backyard. I tried to fight for access but was slapped in the face and told by my own father I was "no good" and a drug addict. I left for banff again and basically said I dont need this shit from everyone when I trying to pull it together.
8months had past and the girl had by now been going with a guy who used to be my dealer in highschool. at the 8months mark they decided that my parents (had been helping her out the entire time) was no longer good enough to be in the family. Well they were hurt something bad. Still haven't really recovered on the topic.
The funny thing was that I didn't get addicted to drugs (meth was my addiction) till about 2yrs later. I was in calgary by this time and had seen my parents a few times. My parents clued in that clearly they had made a mistake cause NOW I was a meth addict and it showed. skinny, pizza faced, just messed up.
I've been clean for 5yrs now... been in a relationship for the past 3 (anniversary tomorrow) and have been raising both a 3yr old and now our new addition since the beginning.
I just got the paper work today. She's made a reply and is asking that I dont get everything I've asked for. In fact she doesn't want me to have anything to do with her period and she's still trying to fight for it.
I've asked for a pat. test, got my reasons. Shes asking that I pay for it solely.
She also has a lawyer apparently.
What can I expect for the first court appearance?
court is oct 13th so lots of time to be prepared.
my lovely woman is backing me up along with my parents.