I didn't think I was going to be getting a place so fast but my broker is the shit and totally hooked me up thanks J_Scott and my realtor cound't have been more helpful with finding a place. If it wasn't for these two I'd be paying someone elses mortgage still. It's not totally final yet my brokers still got some work to do to make sure it gets apporved but it's pretty much in the bag.
For anyone who hasn't bought a place yet make sure you have a really good realtor and I would recommend going with an independent broker since they have way more resources they can tap into. So far this experience for what it's worth has been a roller coaster of emotion for my girl friend and I but it's only going to get better from here.